Me Time: Redefining Your Life After 40  
Rachel Johnson

We all know and secretly resent them. They're fit and thin and slip effortlessly into clothes in the tiniest sizes. Unfortunately, I'm not one of them.

For me, staying fit and at a healthy weight in middle age is an act of constant vigilance.

I suspect it's the same for most of us, no matter how easy it may appear to others. But this doesn't mean we have to be marathon runners or live on celery sticks. Small things we do every day can go a long way toward staying healthy. Once they're part of an everyday routine, they may indeed feel effortless. Here are a few things that work for me.

1. Take advantage of healthy convenience foods

I admit it: I pay extra for convenience foods when I know they'll help me eat nutritiously. I used to feel guilty when I bought those outrageously priced packages of vegetables that are washed, sliced and ready to go. No longer. When I get home from the office at 6 p.m., having these packages in the fridge can mean the difference between a healthy or not-so-healthy meal. What's more, by staying home and cooking rather than eating out, I've still saved money.

2. Schedule exercise and make it non-negotiable

I'm amazed when high-powered, well-paid executives tell me they have no time for exercise. Who controls their lives? For years, I've set aside noon to 1:15 p.m. on my weekday calendar for exercise. Sure, things come up, but by scheduling it I consistently get in three to four days of noontime workouts every week.

I'm also part of a group of women who have been exercising together for years. We have fun, and we keep each other motivated. We sometimes muse about what we'd all look like if we hadn't been sweating together all these years. I vary what I do to keep it interesting. Lately I'm spinning to music on a stationary bike, practicing yoga and running on the days I can't make it to the gym. I know I'm more productive, better able to handle stress and more content when I exercise.

3. Don't waste calories on bad food

Think about what you are eating. I was on an early-morning flight to Chicago not long ago and was served a croissant breakfast sandwich. Knowing it was loaded with calories, my first thought was to just eat half. I took a bite. The croissant was greasy and tough, the egg was tasteless and the ham was still frozen. Yuck. I decided to eat the honeydew and cantaloupe and skip the sandwich. I saved the tasteless calories for something more enjoyable later. Turned out that night

I had a fabulous meal in a great restaurant and knew I could indulge a bit because of the choice I made earlier in the day.

4. Never travel without gym clothes

When I pack for a trip, business or pleasure, the first things that go in my suitcase are sneakers and workout clothes. Yes, this means I can't cram everything into a carry-on, but I rarely have to wait more than a few minutes at baggage claim anyway. Having my workout clothes means that if the weather cooperates and the area is safe, I head out for a morning run. I travel to Washington, D.C., regularly and look forward to a run past the Washington Monument before my workday begins. If I can't get outside, I use the treadmill in the hotel gym. It's not my first choice, but the exercise helps keep me alert during long meeting-filled days.

5. Weigh yourself often

Research shows that people who weigh themselves regularly are more likely to be at a healthy weight. I weigh myself just about every morning. I try to use the scale at the same time every day for consistency (and besides, I weigh less in the morning). I know if I weigh myself often I can get on top of a two- or three-pound weight gain. But if three pounds turns into five or more, it becomes overwhelming. By the way, according to obesity experts, daily weighing does not promote eating disorders. Yes, people with anorexia weigh themselves obsessively—but the disease came first, not the weighing.

We all have tricks that work for us. My son Nicholas tries not to eat a serving of any one food that is larger than his fist. My husband's mantra is "Don't let your waist size get larger than your inseam"—easy for him to say at 6'4" tall. My beautiful friend Susan tries hard to eat only when she's truly hungry, knowing that's when food tastes best. The trick is establishing those small steps that work for you. Once they become routine, people might just start accusing you of being one of those people who are naturally fit and thin.

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Rachel Johnson, Ph.D., M.P.H., R.D., serves as the senior nutrition advisor to the EatingWell.com. A professor of nutrition at the University of Vermont, Rachel holds a Ph.D. and a Bachelor of Science degree in Nutrition from the Pennsylvania State University and a Master of Public Health degree from the University of Hawaii. Rachel has served on the boards for numerous national health associations, including the American Heart Association and the American Dietetic Association, for which she held the position of Chair of the Commission on Dietetic Registration. (Read her full bio.)

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Tuesday, August 04, 2009 10:58:15 AM
I like the point of number three. You can avoid here and there and indulge later IF you know where you stand in your day. I used to think I was doing OK on a daily basis until I started tracking what I was eating. I sure was surprised to see that I was eating about 1000 calories more per day than I thought. At first I was tracking my calories manually but that grew painful fast so I found a free online program called www.411fit.com (plenty of others out there so find one that suits your needs) to make the process painless. I too, began to make changes each day based on what I had already eaten.
Monday, August 03, 2009 8:18:14 PM
It's really a matter of choices, too.  I've been trying to eat healthier and have lost 16lbs in the past 8 wks.  I've exercised regularly long before I decided to eat better, so to lose the weight, I knew it'd be more about my food choices.  My previous philosophy was that I exercised so I could eat what I wanted, and that works up to a point, but then I turned 40 and slowly, I was beginning to gain.  I went to the library and checked out books that I thought would inspire me or give me some advice on making healthier choices (I stayed away from specific diet books).  What an eye-opener!  I'd be packing a lunch for work and looking at the measley frozen dinner with a miniscule amount of chicken, sparse veggies and a small mound of pasta for 300 calories.  After reading the books and getting a better idea of how to eat, I decided to see how much I could eat if I pieced together my own lunch.  For the same calories, I was amazed at how much more I could eat if I chose differently.  I was always hungry after the frozen meals, but packing my own, I could get a low carb tortilla with a slice of cold cut turkey and some lettuce or alfalfa sprouts and spread with spicy brown mustard for 75 calories.  Then I could eat a small bowl of nonfat cottage cheese with salsa mixed in (it's really good!) for about 80 more calories.  I'd maybe bring a salad with spritzer dressing and craisins for about 50 calories and still had more calories left over for a yogurt (Dannon Light and Fit is awesome) (80 calories) or a string cheese (50 calories).  Boy was I full after all that food!  Now my frozen dinners getting frost bite in the freezer because I don't want to spend that many calories and still be hungry when there are much better alternatives! 
Monday, August 03, 2009 8:04:55 PM

Cooking at home with fresh material indeed keep you healthy and feel great.  I agree.

Exercise everyday to burn away the extra calories is non-negotiable, I agree.

Just keep yourself busy with work, eat, rest and go to bed at the right time will benefit

your body very much. You may see at once if you are fit or not even you don't weigh yourself very often.

 

Monday, August 03, 2009 2:46:43 PM
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Monday, August 03, 2009 1:29:54 PM
I cut out all soda...even diet.....3 months ago. I walk between 4 to 8 miles a day (4 in am, 4 in pm....about 1hour 15 minutes of walking total per day) and I have gone from 152 to 141 pounds. I want to get down to 125 pounds by december...and at the rate I am going, I know it will happen. Now that I have given up soda(and the withdrawl was BAD) I find that I do not even CRAVE sweets.  I feel better no longer being a slave to the soda addiction. :) 
Monday, August 03, 2009 1:02:09 PM

Wow, are you way off. That is typical for a person in the medical profession. In it for the money and not for the betterment of another human being. Most doctors will not direct you to perfect health. After all, what kind of job would they have if we all had perfect health. Think about it!!!

 

1. Take advantage of healthy convenience foods: Packaged vegetables are usually chopped up, washed and bleached. Most of the nutrients are gone by the time it hits the bag.

 

2. Schedule exercise and make it non-negotiable: The majority of people will not stick to a schedule. Walk as much as you can and take the stairs not the elevator.

 

3. Don't waste calories on bad food: Eat as large a breakfast as you can. If you prepare it at home increases the benefit.

 

4. Never travel without gym clothes: The majority of the working class does not travel as you do. Casual walking at every break and at lunch time will show up on scale as BIG weight losses.

 

5. Weigh yourself often: Might be one of the few things you mention that might work. The mind is very important tool to be used in controlling your “diet”.

 

6. A very important one you missed: Water, water and more water. Ideally, an 8 ounce glass every hour you are awake.

 

Monday, August 03, 2009 11:30:34 AM
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Monday, August 03, 2009 11:03:26 AM
The problem I see is that many women like to walk around the mall pushing a stroller wearing jeans that mimic Britney Spears and wear the large gawdy thick belt that goes with them. It would be ok if say you were 5'6" tall with green eyes and weighed around 105 lbs. However, many women that dress like this are in denial and have giant muffin tops on top of those low rise jeans. 
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Monday, August 03, 2009 11:02:03 AM

Ko725, I agree with you about not weighing yourself everyday.  I tried so many programs to lose weight and really had a problem with the weigh in each week at weight watchers, I would just get so stressed out and feel like a big failure if I didn't lose or even gained.  Well I have finally taken things into my own hands and I am having success.  My measurement for losing weight is the clothes that I have been able to get back into.  I have now gone from a size 12 to a size 8 in the last 4 months and I feel great...no pressure.  I forgive myself when I slip up and get right back on my healthy eating and exercise routine.  I feel like I am feeding my body the right balance of nutrition so that it can lose weight and not hold onto fat because of being in starvation mode.   I think everyone has to find the right formula that will work for them.  One plan that works for one person may not work for the next so I applaud people when they have successes, but I never tell people they should do this or that to lose weight because that might not work for them. 

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