Satisfaction with life goes up as family size increases, study finds.

(HealthDay News) — Want to be a happy married couple? Consider having kids.

A new study found that having children boosts happiness. And the more, literally, the merrier.

But unmarried couples shouldn't expect to find greater happiness through child-raising. The study, published in the Oct. 14 online edition of the Journal of Happiness Studies, suggests that having children has little or no effect on boosting happiness among couples who aren't hitched.

The findings contradict previous research that suggested that having more offspring doesn't lead to greater happiness and might even make people less satisfied with their lives. One theory behind the conclusion is that parents don't receive many rewards in return for the hard work of raising children.

The new study, however, notes that parents say children are one of the most important things in their lives, if not the most important.

The study found that life satisfaction for married people—women especially—goes up the more kids they have. Single, separated and co-habiting people, by contrast, report negative experiences.

"One is tempted to advance that children make people better off under the 'right conditions'—a time in life when people feel that they are ready, or at least willing, to enter parenthood," Dr. Luis Angeles, of the University of Glasgow in Scotland, said in a news release from the journal's publisher. "This time can come at very different moments for different individuals, but a likely signal of its approach may well be the act of marriage."

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SOURCE: Journal of Happiness Studies, news release, Oct. 26, 2009

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Friday, November 13, 2009 11:17:13 AM
Illiterate, unambitious and downright lack of basic intelligence are the reasons for blindly wanting children. Just look at the language skills from nodakLIL and nola05. This is the kind of stupidity they will teach their children... "breed without thinking, no need to learn the language, accomplish anything at all for yourself, just let the brain rot." What sort of moron came to these conclusions and actually decided to publish this article??
Thursday, November 12, 2009 8:01:44 AM

Every time I see an article basically encouraging humans to be rabbits I am disgusted. The author of this piece should have looked into the expansion of population in the past two centuries and realized that the last thing we need on this earth is 10 kids (even 3+ kids) each.

 

The only reason people used to have an abundance of children has nothing to do with loving them so much they wanted more, it's because before modern medicine you didn't know if your offspring would last ten years or ten months. We live in a society now where you can pretty much rest assured, aside from freak accidents or genetic defects, that one child will most likely live a full, healthy life and continue the biological imperative to spread its gene pool.

 

It is only a selfish, uneducated person in an industrialized nation who has more than two kids. Maybe it makes your life a little more enjoyable, but if you cared about future generations of your gene pool, you would know better. The implications of people having more children than what the replacement TFR calls for in their respective region are unimaginable.

Thursday, November 12, 2009 7:49:06 AM

Were you aware that the replacement TFR for industrialized nations like the US is 2 children?

 

Thanks for contributing to global overpopulation. I'm glad you are having a great time with it.

Thursday, November 12, 2009 1:07:05 AM
waw love yor statemant im a mom of two one 15 month and the second one 3month the kids have given as something i dont know but is happyness well i find time for everything take care of my kids take care of my spause we have time for each otherdespite that his home only five hours max and we have time to stay as a family my husbend take care of the bigger and i at the smoll one and when the kids are sleeping we can stay together we haven't lost anything if u know to keep it playfull the relationship the kids just add something more for the best
Thursday, November 12, 2009 12:42:56 AM

This is queer bull jive. Good talk, easy said. Is science part of the twenty first century? Not from what I have read.

Wednesday, November 04, 2009 11:25:03 PM
i just think that any man that is a GOOD dad is that much more sexy.... and yeah, we have MORE fun being parents together... gives us that much more to laugh about... every day we have all these drunken monkeys runnin around.. and they are GREAT... and every night, we sleep together and are so blessed with all we have......
Wednesday, November 04, 2009 11:20:29 PM
oh REANAN!!! GOOD HEAVENS!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOO GIRL! i am a mom, and i TOTALLY miss the chance i had at a career! i can't now---i wanted law school--- cuz i have kids. i don't regret that really, cuz i DO love my kids more than anything... but the thot of YOU feeling that you're being bashed cuz you have no kids........ YET..... is just STUPID! get ur degree, have your OWN life.. and then, if you WANT to, have kids... ur just the kind of person i always wanted to be... i would SO love a career and i will always miss what i can't have... don't you EVER feel bashed for gettin your degree first! you're doing it the RIGHT way
Wednesday, November 04, 2009 11:12:52 PM

i'm almost some 45 yr old... and lemme tellya... still feels just as precious! lol....

Wednesday, November 04, 2009 11:04:33 PM
lol i beat ya! i have 5! and i know your total and complete bliss to hear such things! i just can't imagine life without them and i don't want to......... and NO we are NOT on welfare..... each and every kid has all they need... IIIIIIIIII shop for clothes at second hand stores... but my KIDS get old navy lol...
Wednesday, November 04, 2009 11:03:30 PM
The most important sentence in this article is, "The new study, however, notes that parents say children are one of the most important things in their lives, if not the most important."

What this article fails to note is that in the original study, parents did in fact say that they were happier with children than when they were child-free...but it also noted that they were lying about their happiness. 

This article relies on parents reporting honestly on their own happiness.  Few parents are willing to lay the blame for being unhappy on their children.  Sometimes this is out of guilt, after all, you don't blame the dog you adopt if it turns out you're not a dog person (You can give a dog back though).  Or, parents feel shame, due to their perceived failing to live up to society's expectation that children = fulfillment. 

It's interesting to me to read comments on articles like this that read, "I feel like my life has meaning/purpose now that I have children."  I think that's really sad, and wonder about the circumstances of a person's life that reproduction is the last resort for fulfillment. 
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