Family stability may be more crucial than dual parents for child's success.

SATURDAY, Sept. 5 (HealthDay News) -- Family stability -- regardless of whether it's a one- or two-parent household -- may help a child succeed in school and life, a new study shows.

The findings, by an Ohio State University professor, challenge the conventional wisdom that two-parent households are always best for children. A single parent marrying or moving in with a partner may be as disruptive to a child as a divorce, the author suggests.

"Based on this study, we can't say for sure that marriage will be a good thing for the children of single mothers, particularly if that marriage is unhealthy and does not last," Claire Kamp Dush, an assistant professor of human development and family science at Ohio State, said in a university news release.

Only in black families did Kamp Dush find a particular advantage in children always living with two parents as opposed to growing up with only one. Black children from stabled married families scored better on reading and math tests than those from single-parent families. Otherwise, regardless of race, the children of stable single-parent households did as well academically and behaviorally as their counterparts in married households.

"Our results suggest that the key for many children is growing up in a stable household, where they don't go through divorce or other changes in the family, whether that is in a single-parent home or a married home," she said.

The findings appear in "Marriage and Family: Perspectives and Complexities," a recently published book that Kamp Dash co-edited. She looked at information gathered from nearly 5,000 households nationwide during two long-term periods over three decades. While many past studies show an advantage for children growing up in married households, Kamp Dush notes those did not distinguish between family structure and family stability.

For example, in one breakdown of the data, Kamp Dush compared similar households where the only difference was whether the mother was single or married during the entire study and found little difference in how the children did in school or otherwise.

"My message to single moms is to think carefully before they decide to get married or live with a partner," she said. "Both romantic relationships and parenting are hard work. Unless you think that you and your partner can make it for the long haul, I think it would be better for single moms to avoid moving in with romantic partners. Family transitions are hard for kids."

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The Nemours Foundation has more about raising happy and healthy children.

SOURCE: Ohio State University, news release, August 31, 2009

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Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:53:11 PM
My father died when I was 10 so my mom had to raise me and three of my sisters by herself, fast forward to now. I have my two-year old twin daughters and at first me and their mother raised them together then we broke up and we split custody but lately I find she's been seeing and asking about them less and they have been great, they know some colors, numbers and are very happy children. So based of my experiences, I feel though a child should have a mother and father, they can survive with one or the other depending on how strong that parent is and a supportive family (aunts, uncles, grandparents etc.). I'm sure most people can agree a couple that is clearly unhappy together but stays "for the kids" is a front and I definitely rather be happy being alone than miserable together and I 100% agree with hannibal_cannibal
Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:52:58 PM

@ A Proud Dad

There are lots of single moms and dads in the bible and they weren't godless.  Seriously, God hasn't been so exact on this point now has he? 

Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:45:33 PM
"doug79999 
reading all of these stories of failed relationships, broken marriages, and parents that have to practicly kill themselves to raise their kids, it makes me a little more determined to never get married and never have kids"
 
Please don't take that away from this post.  There are many reasons things don't work out and I hate to say this but a lot of people fall in love and or marry for the wrong reasons.  Being in love is the greatest feeling you will ever know.   Then if you have a child that is a love like no other, they make you laugh they make you cry they make your frustrated but most of all they amaze you and you have this intense love for them.
 
The best thing you can do is remember you don't need anyone to validate who you are as a person.  Then make a list of what you want out of a mate and life such as what kind of job you want, do you want to volunteer, as far as a mate do you want someone religious, independent, anything you want put it on the list and then work on what you need to do to make that list a reality.
 
I don't think politics has anything to do on this post but universal healthcare doesn't work look at canada, england, california tried a version of it and massachusets did also.  There isn't a plan out there that has proven to work.  Its nice in theory but its not in reality.  Besides that the government has ruined medicare, medicaid and champus yet we now want them to run more healthcare.  no
 
Good luck in all you do and I hope you do find someone
Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:44:04 PM
I love the fact that this articule continually talks and refers to single moms...... guess nothing has changed in the past 17 years after all. My point being that everyone seems to FORGET about us single dads out there. I raised my 17 y/o for the past 15 years by myself....with no financel help from either his mother whom just walked out one day( whom was ordered to pay the high price tag of $25 a month child support which has never been seen since day one)..... nor from the state whom seemed to think being a man meant being able to work....forget about the fact the child needed to be cared for..... Let's address both sides of the coin...not just the female side...

And yes...stability is the key.......as well as putting the childs needs first.... regardless of what Sex the raising parent is......

I raised a A+ student who is graduating half a semester early and heading to college..... Not bad I think...considering it was done at a time when single FATHERS tended to be ignored....

Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:43:30 PM

Hey Doug,

 

Just saw your illogical post.  What insurance company could stay in business if it only sold insurance when the building was already on fire?  What country can stay viable if it taxes the taxpayer out of existence?  A $10 TRILLION deficit is national suicide! 

Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:41:09 PM

@Richard cranium

Please do not breed.  Please use every method of birth control available to you.  Support your argument at least.  Have you any experience as a parent?  What are you bringing to the table to improve matters?

Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:40:19 PM
I grew up in a single parent home - my father died when I was 3.  I remember as a kid, during the height of the women's lib movement - hearing all those women say that one parent was just as good as two.  I knew better then; I know better now.  Sure, I did ok in all the statistical matters (there's lies. there's damned lies, and then there's statistics).  But while I credit my mom for doing her best to raise me alone, it was not ideal, by any means.  She knew it, I knew it, but we did our best to come out of a situation over which we had no control.   To enter into such a situation, on purpose, deliberately, is a fool's choice for an ideal future, and I see a lot of people doing just that.  A child DESERVES to have two parents - a mother and a father.
Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:39:59 PM
Another lesbian sponsored non-scientific study that reaches the same conclusion each time: men have no role in raising children. These "studies" are designed to demonstrate their predetermined outcome. Interestingly, they include a variant and discuss the effect stable families have on Black children. Why is there a racial component? Is this the new PC? Think that they are grooming Obama for more federal funds to support Black families? There is a huge deficit in the intellectual and academic honesty in this "study" and report. Too bad the media is unable to determine what is crap and what is good science.
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Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:39:23 PM
My mom and dad got divorced when I was 2 and my dad got married again but divorced because his exwife didnt like me and my brother and sister. Dad actually thought of the kids and thats why Im happier when im at his house. My mom got married to this **** who i HATE and so does the rest of the family and trust me, theres alot of us. He treats us like crap and treats his kids like royalty even though theyve been in court numerous times and threatened jail time.  My brother and sister and I tell my mom many times to just dump his ass, even Grandma hates him and wants her to leave him. She wont and it really ticks me off that She'd rather have him than for us to be happy. She constantly gets mad at him and says she hates him yet doesnt leave! I just wish for once she'd do whats best for her and us and just leave. Her marrying Mark just made me get angry alot more than before and Im normally a very happy person.
Sunday, September 06, 2009 8:37:51 PM
Another lesbian sponsored non-scientific study that reaches the same conclusion each time: men have no role in raising children. These "studies" are designed to demonstrate this same predetermined outcome. Interestingly, they include a variant and discuss the effect stable families have on Black children. Why is there a racial component? Is this the new PC? Think that they are grooming Obama for more federal funds to support Black families? There is a huge deficit in the intellectual and academic honesty in this "study" and report. Too bad the media is unable to determine what is crap and what is good science.
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