Single Parents May Do as Well as Two: Study
Family stability may be more crucial than dual parents for child's success

SATURDAY, Sept. 5 (HealthDay News) -- Family stability -- regardless of whether it's a one- or two-parent household -- may help a child succeed in school and life, a new study shows.
The findings, by an Ohio State University professor, challenge the conventional wisdom that two-parent households are always best for children. A single parent marrying or moving in with a partner may be as disruptive to a child as a divorce, the author suggests.
"Based on this study, we can't say for sure that marriage will be a good thing for the children of single mothers, particularly if that marriage is unhealthy and does not last," Claire Kamp Dush, an assistant professor of human development and family science at Ohio State, said in a university news release.
Only in black families did Kamp Dush find a particular advantage in children always living with two parents as opposed to growing up with only one. Black children from stabled married families scored better on reading and math tests than those from single-parent families. Otherwise, regardless of race, the children of stable single-parent households did as well academically and behaviorally as their counterparts in married households.
"Our results suggest that the key for many children is growing up in a stable household, where they don't go through divorce or other changes in the family, whether that is in a single-parent home or a married home," she said.
The findings appear in "Marriage and Family: Perspectives and Complexities," a recently published book that Kamp Dash co-edited. She looked at information gathered from nearly 5,000 households nationwide during two long-term periods over three decades. While many past studies show an advantage for children growing up in married households, Kamp Dush notes those did not distinguish between family structure and family stability.
For example, in one breakdown of the data, Kamp Dush compared similar households where the only difference was whether the mother was single or married during the entire study and found little difference in how the children did in school or otherwise.
"My message to single moms is to think carefully before they decide to get married or live with a partner," she said. "Both romantic relationships and parenting are hard work. Unless you think that you and your partner can make it for the long haul, I think it would be better for single moms to avoid moving in with romantic partners. Family transitions are hard for kids."
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As the author of The Super, Sexy, Single Mom on a Budget I am thankful for your insightful article. Often as single mothers I feel damned if we do and damned if we don’t. I personally know how it is to have people look at you differently because you are a single mom, even though I am the sole provider of my child’s needs within my home. I feel we as single parents are superheros and I know I am trying my best to provide a fantastic foundation for my child. That’s why I wrote my book to inspire and motivate single mothers and take away the negative connotation that is so often associated to being a single mom. Would it be great to have two wonderful parents, yes. But, often that’s not the reality. Therefore, I will provide the best home I can for my child even if it’s by myself. Thanks-Renee Rayles www.SuperSexyMoms.com
Snglemoma - I agree with your feelings on the subject. Like you, I have chosen to remain single while my kids are still at home in order to avoid sidelining them while pursuing a romantic relationship. Personally, I don't know anyone, including myself, who has been capable of kindling new romance while not ignoring their kids to some extent- new relationships just take too much time and energy, far more than if you are still in the relationship that produced the children. Plus, you have to worry about predators trying to date you in order to get a crack at your kids.
Very early after my divorce from their dad, I tried to find my children a "father figure" and it was a total disaster (thank goodness he moved out after 9 mos. of marriage). I learned the hard way that having a bad father figure is far worse than none at all.
These days I joke that I am both the mother and the father figure to my kids, but in a lot of ways it's true...
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Auby:
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I never understood how a father or a mother could simply run out on his or her child and have nothing to do with the kid. If I was a parent, the child would be my life....but I am unable to handle kids right now...
I loved how this article focused on the fact that single families CAN be more productive than two-parent families. There are far too many women out there who are willing to bring a man into their home not because they want to, but because they feel as if they must have a husband in order to have a productive household.
I never understood the stigma of single moms. I never once felt like having a single mom gave me a disadvantage. Kudos to all of the single moms and single dads out there!
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