Family stability may be more crucial than dual parents for child's success.

SATURDAY, Sept. 5 (HealthDay News) -- Family stability -- regardless of whether it's a one- or two-parent household -- may help a child succeed in school and life, a new study shows.

The findings, by an Ohio State University professor, challenge the conventional wisdom that two-parent households are always best for children. A single parent marrying or moving in with a partner may be as disruptive to a child as a divorce, the author suggests.

"Based on this study, we can't say for sure that marriage will be a good thing for the children of single mothers, particularly if that marriage is unhealthy and does not last," Claire Kamp Dush, an assistant professor of human development and family science at Ohio State, said in a university news release.

Only in black families did Kamp Dush find a particular advantage in children always living with two parents as opposed to growing up with only one. Black children from stabled married families scored better on reading and math tests than those from single-parent families. Otherwise, regardless of race, the children of stable single-parent households did as well academically and behaviorally as their counterparts in married households.

"Our results suggest that the key for many children is growing up in a stable household, where they don't go through divorce or other changes in the family, whether that is in a single-parent home or a married home," she said.

The findings appear in "Marriage and Family: Perspectives and Complexities," a recently published book that Kamp Dash co-edited. She looked at information gathered from nearly 5,000 households nationwide during two long-term periods over three decades. While many past studies show an advantage for children growing up in married households, Kamp Dush notes those did not distinguish between family structure and family stability.

For example, in one breakdown of the data, Kamp Dush compared similar households where the only difference was whether the mother was single or married during the entire study and found little difference in how the children did in school or otherwise.

"My message to single moms is to think carefully before they decide to get married or live with a partner," she said. "Both romantic relationships and parenting are hard work. Unless you think that you and your partner can make it for the long haul, I think it would be better for single moms to avoid moving in with romantic partners. Family transitions are hard for kids."

More information

The Nemours Foundation has more about raising happy and healthy children.

SOURCE: Ohio State University, news release, August 31, 2009

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Tuesday, September 08, 2009 11:49:44 AM

As the author of The Super, Sexy, Single Mom on a Budget I am thankful for your insightful article. Often as single mothers I feel damned if we do and damned if we don’t. I personally know how it is to have people look at you differently because you are a single mom, even though I am the sole provider of my child’s needs within my home.  I feel we as single parents are superheros and I know I am trying my best to provide a fantastic foundation for my child.  That’s why I wrote my book to inspire and motivate single mothers and take away the negative connotation that is so often associated to being a single mom. Would it be great to have two wonderful parents, yes.  But, often that’s not the reality.  Therefore, I will provide the best home I can for my child even if it’s by myself. Thanks-Renee Rayles www.SuperSexyMoms.com

Tuesday, September 08, 2009 3:58:44 AM
What about the single moms who are not stable and do not have the energy to take care of their child much less anyone else? If a mom is single and people are trying to help them and they refuse and never climb out of their hole then what good is a parent whom is financially unstable and no help from the other parent or family then what do you say to that? How do you help them overcome obstacles easy as feeding a child when the child will not eat nor mind because the single mom has not energy to discipline or she would rather compensate by giving in to the ills of life? How is it then that single parenting is good?
Monday, September 07, 2009 9:02:40 AM

Snglemoma - I agree with your feelings on the subject. Like you, I have chosen to remain single while my kids are still at home in order to avoid sidelining them while pursuing a romantic relationship. Personally, I don't know anyone, including myself, who has been capable of kindling new romance while not ignoring their kids to some extent- new relationships just take too much time and energy, far more than if you are still in the relationship that produced the children. Plus, you have to worry about predators trying to date you in order to get a crack at your kids.

Very early after my divorce from their dad, I tried to find my children a "father figure" and it was a total disaster (thank goodness he moved out after 9 mos. of marriage). I learned the hard way that having a bad father figure is far worse than none at all.

These days I joke that I am both the mother and the father figure to my kids, but in a lot of ways it's true...

Monday, September 07, 2009 4:00:33 AM

doug79999 You truly bring a smile to my face.  You finally made sense when you said "Give us the same healthcare that congress gets...the healthcare funded by US!"  They would not take the healthcare they are proposing for us for themselves.  Also Doug this proposal is bad for more reasons then just the insurance part.

Really Doug if you think Medicare runs fine you must be a young man and you need to go to any senior center near you and spend time with people who use it,  because it is not working and its almost out of money.  One of the reasons its almost out of money is the fraud and abuse by the people who shouldn't be on it, but have manipulated their way onto it.

Doug I wish you all the best and this will be my last post on this subject.  I do think you have good intentions but its the wrong fight.  I am truly glad that for the moment I live in a country where I still have Freedom of choice and thought.

Sunday, September 06, 2009 9:46:18 PM
I'm in agreement with this article 100%.  I'm a single mom, and have made the conscious decision to not get into a relationship or get married only because the future of that relationship/marriage is not predictable.  Stability is very important for kids, and its not healthy for my child to see me going from one relationship to another.  When my child was younger I heard all the time how I needed to find a man so my child had a father - but was that really the answer to everything?  No.  I knew when my child was old enough I could then focus on myself more - but while raising my child as a single parent I knew it was important that I give my child 100% of myself if I was going to raise him right.  As I've always said, I just don't have the energy, nor do I want to, focus on both raising my child and having a relationship.  Both take a lot of work - I simply had to choose which was more important - and my child is at the top of my list. 
Sunday, September 06, 2009 9:32:13 PM

Auby:

I guess you wold prefer a health insurance company making money off of denying you service....lots of americans do, and that's why a lot of them are idiots. I'm sorry but that's just my view. you have to be an idiot to not want healthcare. You have to be an idiot to want to continue putting your life in the hands of places like Kaiser. Government run healthcare works just fine, look at medicare.  Give us the same healthcare that congress gets...the healthcare funded by US!

Sunday, September 06, 2009 9:22:47 PM

I never understood how a father or a mother could simply run out on his or her child and have nothing to do with the kid. If I was a parent, the child would be my life....but I am unable to handle kids right now...

Sunday, September 06, 2009 9:21:30 PM
A stable home is best for children, that is common sense. Giving your child positive attention and being involved with your kids is the main thing. This applies to all families no matter how many parents. Bringing another adult into the childrens lives should never be taken lightly. I have seen more damage done to kids by their parents virtually ignoring them in favor of their lovers, it is as destructive as a parent with an alcohol or drug addiction. Kids grow up quickly, enjoy your time with them!
Sunday, September 06, 2009 9:08:37 PM

I loved how this article focused on the fact that single families CAN be more productive than two-parent families.  There are far too many women out there who are willing to bring a man into their home not because they want to, but because they feel as if they must have a husband in order to have a productive household.

I never understood the stigma of single moms.  I never once felt like having a single mom gave me a disadvantage.  Kudos to all of the single moms and single dads out there!

Sunday, September 06, 2009 9:02:54 PM
The last paragraph of this article particularly infuriated me.  Why is she advising single mothers to be careful?  In the case of the majority of people I know who are divorced, the dad remarries first, and the mom waits until the children are older if they remarry at all.  As someone who divorced an emotionally abusive man who was raised in a home where his parents were married over 30 years, and his grandparents more than 50 before one spouse died, I left to end the cycle of emotional abuse that had been passed from one generation to the other in his family. My own father died when I was 4, and my mother remarried a great guy when I was 10. She had a couple of bad relationships between my father's death and her remarriage, and from her choices, I learned to focus on stability for my children as our family went through divorce. While I can't guarantee my exhusband won't be emotionally abusive with his new wife, I can guarantee, I will be modeling appropriate emotional behavior and responses with my children when they're in my home.
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